Relationships are both our source of deepest satisfaction and our greatest distress. While many books are written with the goal of helping couples, most are written with heterosexual relationships in mind. This workbook specifically addresses issues that lesbians face such as coming out, domestic partnership or marriage commitment, and the effects of homophobia (both internalized and external). Working It Out contains steps for overcoming these specific roadblocks, as well as information and exercises to develop your emotional bonds, your communication skills, your decision-making ease and your fair fighting abilities. Designed to further your understanding of and your connection to the one you love, it is written with humor, kindness and practicality to assist you in your quest for loving, healthy and successful relating.