You Broke Up When You Said "I Do"

When Was The Last Time You Saw Your Husband Smile?

They say that the first five years of a relationship is the hardest. You either "make it" or you "break it". You experience so much as a couple in the first five years of a relationship and sometimes the struggles you face will be enough for you to realize that maybe this isn't exactly what you wanted, or you will realize that, "Hey, this person is the person I want to do life with".

When you first meet that person that gives you butterflies and makes you smile uncontrollably all the time for no reason, you are forever chasing to get that feeling again. After a while, you begin to submerge yourself in a feeling of comfort, and you get relaxed. Little by little, you might start to not wear as much make-up, or you skip a couple days on shaving your legs. If you're not working, then your hair doesn't get done, and you don't bother to try to get all dressed up. You would rather stay home and watch TV than make the effort to get up and get out, because it's easier that way. You spend less money, and don't have to put forth effort to spend time with your significant other. Then, you wake up one day, asking yourself, "What the hell happened?"

Where is the love? Where is that attraction? When did we stop having fun together?