Fill your life with peace, love, and joy. Learn to be happy in your heart. Let go of the people who do not bring happiness and satisfaction into your life. Remember, just going to church does not make you a Christian any more than standing in your garage makes you a car. Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well-preserved body but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming, Woo hoo! What a ride! Get in, shut up, and hang on. Your life is on!