A belief of the author in how hormones and pheromones affect all relationships, actions, and even political and world events. The release of pheromones by a menopausal woman can be of a repelling nature. These types of pheromones tell a man to seek more fertile women and can actually create a response hostility and insensitivity towards the woman that is becoming infertile. The author offers tools to the reader for couples to use to traverse this hostile time in their relationship. The author is actually experiencing this time first hand and has developed tools and communication skills to help a couple help each other. A theory of how hormones and pheromones affect every person and every area of life, in our decisions and associations.