Because I Love Him explains how girls become battered women, why they stay and other issues that face trauma survivors, of all types. The book explains the often perplexing behaviors of battered women and other trauma survivors and gives us the tools necessary to help her understand her response to the trauma, recover and learn to make choices that help keep her safe. Because I Love Him explains victim-offender behaviors and the relationship between them, utilizing research that spans almost three decades, the input of hundreds of victims and survivors, both human and animal, and capitalizes on information provided by offenders. This allows females to examine the choices they make that cause them to stand out from the herd. The author addresses, and blows up, the fallacies our society has designed to stay in our comfort zone and shines a light on the arguments offenders wield to maintain their comfort with the suffering they cause.