Choose to Shine - dealing with betrayal Betrayal is a profoundly shocking and painful thing to experience, and it is a road that many of us have to travel on at some point in our lives. Although each journey is different, there are some common landmarks that we all encounter along the way. This is the true story of one woman's experience of infidelity - of a gradual realisation that the person she thought she knew and loved was capable of shocking things. It's a story she wants to share so that whatever dark and desolate places we go through, we know that there can be a light and a place of hope at the end of our travels.