There are many ways to go about developing your relationship but which way is right for you. "Don't Take My Cookie It Must Be Earned" was inspired by the many relationships author Chainn Gahagan Sr.has encountered throughout his life journey. Some of these encounters are based upon his relationships, but some were based upon the relationships of others. Why did these women made such drastic and detrimental decisions in their relationships? Girls are losing their virginity at an early age, hooking up with drug heads and drug dealers, experimenting with drug use-which can lead to a whole host of other problematic situations-and using their sexuality to acquire money for themselves. This is not the way our girls should grow up Somehow, the teachings that needed to be passed down from generation to generation are becoming things of the past. Although the horrors of this broken system are undeniable, all it will take to turn the tide are people who can impart knowledge, wisdom, and understanding to those who are lost-people who will listen to their pain and give them a hug to nullify the errors of their past ways. The sooner we can get to them, the better.