Does God use "Verbal Abuse" to shape us up in our walk with Him? Is it possibly a TEST orchestrated by God? Should it be stopped or can it be stopped? Is it a precursor to physical abuse? Does the church condone "Verbal Abuse" especially in our personal relationships? Christians around the world are trapped in "Verbal Abusive" relationships. Why is this happening? This Christian woman writes about her experience with "Verbal abuse" and her own search for answers to these questions. Join her in her quest to understand what "Verbal Abuse" is and how it has affected her life. This phenomena is not only a Christian problem, but it encompasses any woman (and/or man), that is caught up in this travesty. Everyone who reads this autobiographical account by Lady Day, will be inspired Then you will clearly understand how and why she is persuaded that "Verbal Abuse is not a Spiritual Thing "