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Just Listen: Discover the Secret to Getting Through to Absolutely Anyone

Autor Mark Goulston
en Limba Engleză Paperback – 3 mar 2015
Do you ever feel like you're talking to a brick wall?

The first step in persuading anyone to do anything is getting them to hear you out. But whether the person is a cynical colleague, furious customer, or overwhelmed spouse, their emotional barriers may be blocking your message. And if you can't break through, you can't move forward.

Just Listen has helped tens of thousands of people tear down walls and establish productive communication. In this landmark book, veteran psychiatrist and business coach Mark Goulston reveals simple, proven techniques for moving people from resistance to consensus, explaining how to:

  • Listen effectively
  • Make even a total stranger - perhaps a potential client - feel "felt"
  • Shift an angry or aggressive person into a calmer, more receptive state
  • Use empathy jolts to quickly bridge communication gaps
  • Turn negative people into assets using the "Magic Paradox"
  • Achieve buy-in, the linchpin of all negotiation, persuasion, and sales

Barricades between people become barriers to success and happiness, so getting through is not just a fine art - it's a crucial skill. With Just Listen, readers learn how to transform the "impossible" and "unreachable" people in their lives into true allies, loyal customers, and lifelong friends.

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Specificații

ISBN-13: 9780814436479
ISBN-10: 0814436471
Pagini: 256
Dimensiuni: 151 x 229 x 21 mm
Greutate: 0.28 kg
Ediția:Specială
Editura: Amacom
Colecția Amacom
Locul publicării:Nashville, United States

Descriere

Do you ever feel like you're talking to a brick wall?

The first step in persuading anyone to do anything is getting them to hear you out. But whether the person is a cynical colleague, furious customer, or overwhelmed spouse, their emotional barriers may be blocking your message. And if you can't break through, you can't move forward.

Just Listen has helped tens of thousands of people tear down walls and establish productive communication. In this landmark book, veteran psychiatrist and business coach Mark Goulston reveals simple, proven techniques for moving people from resistance to consensus, explaining how to:

 

  • Listen effectively
  • Make even a total stranger - perhaps a potential client - feel "felt"
  • Shift an angry or aggressive person into a calmer, more receptive state
  • Use empathy jolts to quickly bridge communication gaps
  • Turn negative people into assets using the "Magic Paradox"
  • Achieve buy-in, the linchpin of all negotiation, persuasion, and sales

Barricades between people become barriers to success and happiness, so getting through is not just a fine art - it's a crucial skill. With Just Listen, readers learn how to transform the "impossible" and "unreachable" people in their lives into true allies, loyal customers, and lifelong friends.


Notă biografică

Mark Goulston is a business consultant, coach, speaker, psychiatrist, and former FBI hostage negotiation trainer. The author of Get Out of Your Own Way and other popular books, he blogs for Harvard Business Review, Fast Company, Business Insider, and The Huffington Post.


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CONTENTS

 

Foreword by Keith Ferrazzi xiii

Preface to the Paperback Edition xv

Acknowledgments xvii

SECTION I The Secret to Reaching Anyone 1

1 Who's Holding YOU Hostage? 3

2 A Little Science: How the Brain Goes from "No” to "Yes” 14

 

SECTION II The 9 Core Rules for Getting Through to Anyone 25

3 Move Yourself from "Oh F#@& to OK” 27

4 Rewire Yourself to Listen 36

5 Make the Other Person Feel "Felt” 45

6 Be More Interested Than Interesting 55

7 Make People Feel Valuable 64

8 Help People to Exhale Emotionally and Mentally 69

9 Check Your Dissonance at the Door 77

10 When All Seems Lost—Bare Your Neck 87

11 Steer Clear of Toxic People 94

 

SECTION III 12 Easy-to-Use Tools for Achieving Buy-in and Getting Through 109

12 The Impossibility Question 111

13 The Magic Paradox 116

14 The Empathy Jolt 123

15 The Reverse Play, Empathy Jolt #2 132

16 "Do You Believe That?” 138

17 The Power of "Hmmm. . . .” 142

18 The Stipulation Gambit 150

19 From Transaction to Transformation 155

20 Side by Side 163

21 Fill in the Blanks 170

22 Take It All the Way to "No” 176

23 The Power Thank You and Power Apology 180

 

SECTION IV Fast Fixes for 7 Challenging Situations 187

24 The Team from Hell 189

25 Climbing the Ladder 194

26 The Narcissist at the Table 197

27 Stranger in Town 200

28 The Human Explosion 204

29 Getting Through to Yourself 209

30 Six Degrees of Separation 215

 

Afterword 221

Index 223

About the Author 231

Keynotes/Workshops 233