This book was written to share the ability to find intimacy after abuse or tragedy. A broken young boy's journey to find a way to believe in love and intimacy and what he learned along the way. He elaborates on how important it is to fall in love with yourself before allowing yourself to love someone else. It is everything in between what others tell you or focus on when discussing intimacy. The truth of what makes it real and lasting and your responsibility in keeping that torch burning. It speaks to the myth that sex dictates our most intimate beliefs and how. James completes this book with a note to women about their "Power of the Flower". The ability to take control of their future, sexual experiences and their most intimate wants and needs, with the ones they love.