Are you familiar with being able to recognize or identify his best for you and your life? Well, his first to second best for you, meaning that's God's best, isn't his best if you can't start to turn towards his direction. Always seeking his face for discernment as well as common sense. God will never lead you astray without warning that he loves you. God wants what is best for you. The purpose of this book is to help better you beware of falling into the pit of the false man that you think you can help or make into the image of God. Let's go into the process and allow me to entertain you with the motion of the process of choosing. There is a process to every relationship no matter what it is, trusting God through the process is what his words say Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. This book is dedicated to any woman or any person; there is no age range. This book is purposed to help make a difference in your life or to help mentor you. And guide you down to a better experience take this as good advice from me to you whatever you can apply or, maybe nothing relates, either way, enjoy, and, you may be able to help someone else that this does apply to that you may be working with.