The Psychology of Abusive Relationships

Love is supposed to be fulfilling for all the parties involved. But sometimes, it isn't; one party may be getting the short end of the stick.

This person may be you...

Do you have a part of you that sees/feels something is wrong about your relationship but can't exactly put a finger on it?

Do you often have to justify your relationship to others- including yourself?

Do you over-compensate for the self-doubt and shame that you experience about your relationship by faking smiles, posting excessively on social media about your good times and being all lovey-dovey around people yet you feel empty and hopeless deep inside?

The truth is; you may not have been slapped, pushed or have a black eye and other injuries for you to be considered to be in an abusive relationship.

If your partner puts you down, says mean things, is unappreciative, uses mind games and other narcissistic tools of trade on you to always have an upper hand and to 'keep your in your place', you are being emotionally abused

Emotional abuse is just as damaging as physical abuse; it damages your self-esteem, self of identity and puts your mental health at risk

Lucky for you, if you've had thoughts such as...

Is this really abuse?

Am I crazy to demand to be treated with basic human decency?

How do I stop the abuse?

How do I set boundaries in my relationship to stop the narcissist in their tracks?

How do I stop feeling like I'm walking on eggshells?

How do I break free and never look back?

This book is for you; to help you turn the tables in your relationship to stop the narcissistic abuser in their tracks, set new boundaries that they won't cross and get your sanity, self-esteem and freedom back

• The basics of emotional abuse, including what it is, the different forms of abuse, the strategies that abusers use, the effects of abuse and more
• The power and control wheel, including why understanding that is important in your journey to recovery
• How to spot signs of abuse in your relationship so that you can confirm whether yours is indeed an abusive one and start taking measures to break free
• What goes on in the mind of the abuser, why they do it, how they spot their victims and why you've been feeling helpless about the abuse
• What goes on in the mind of victims and how to gather enough courage to turn the tables
• How to prepare your master-plan to stop or escape from the abuse
• How to escape to your freedom and sanity then rebuild yourself
• How to ensure you never have another abusive relationship, for good
• And much more