How do you know if a man is a player or a keeper? How do you know if a man you are dating is a potential husband? What makes a man a dream husband? Is it his appearance, his Career, his wealth, his fame, his spiritual life, his Social life, and his talents? People often ask me why divorce has become so prevalent in our society. Many people enter into marriage without realizing how complex marriage is. Proper preparation is crucial. Preparing doesn't guarantee everything will go exactly as we plan, but it gives us an awareness of potential blessings and dangers we may encounter in marriage. Preparation is crucial to everything we do in life and generally leads to a stronger performance. The reason why many relationships suffer unnecessarily is because of a poorly laid foundation. Much of the preparation that precedes today's marriages relates to the wedding and other transitory matters unrelated to the growth and maintenance of a healthy, lasting relationship. There are countless things that should be considered before marriage. Women frequently say they can't find a man who will truly love and understand them. The best things in life rarely come easily, and finding a good husband is definitely a challenge. You must take the time to prepare yourself to meet the right man to become your husband-a man who will care for you throughout the rest of your life. Without good direction and proper preparation, you may end up with the wrong man and an unhappy marriage. You must also remember that both the man and the woman should be committed to building a successful family. You have a huge part to play in the success of your marriage as well. Why do you want to get married? Here are some important questions to ask yourself and answer sincerely: Is it because of the pressure from your family or friends? Is it because all of your friends are married and you are lonely? Is it because you want to have children and you're getting older? Is it because a man has helped you, so you want to marry him out of gratitude or as a kindness? Is it because you don't want to lose him? Is it to gain financial security? Is it because you are pregnant with his child? Is it to avoid the temptation of premarital sex? Is it because other men are coming on to you? Is it because he is the best-looking guy you have ever met? Is it because he is intelligent, talented, famous, or from a respected family? Is it because you are prepared and ready spiritually, socially, economically, and emotionally to start a family? I do believe that The Ultimate Husband book will help you to make a great decision in choosing your life partner. I strongly recommend the Ultimate wife and the Ultimate Dream Family to complete your preparation."