Have you ever told yourself you would never do something or be a certain kind of person? Have you always had in the back of your mind exactly how your life was going to turn out? To Be or Not to Be entails a journey in which it takes one person over ten years before they finally figure out their true path is not of their own but God's will. This author will take you through various events (both good and bad) that in the end fell together for God's own purpose. "We are still struggling in places, but now we know God has a reason for everything."