This witty romance has a serious purpose: to lay bare the true reason behind our inability to "have it all." By completely reframing the problem, Elisabeth Glas shows that it is not gender, which makes women underrepresented at the top of our corporations and men underrepresented in our households. In contrary, today men and women have the same opportunities, but they make different use of them. And the reason is guilt. But because guilt influences our decisions and behavior without us realizing it, we keep solving for the wrong problem. Even worse, every day we waste valuable hours managing our guilt, and as a result have turned both workplace and home into cultures of over-delivery. The solution: to eliminate that waste.