Do we truly see ourselves for what we are? Our true colours come out when we are in a relationships or friendship. As our detrimental personal behaviour becomes dominant, that's where the complaints arise. It's normal in life to go through phases in life like being whipped, big time daddy's girl etc. It's a learning curve but frankly speaking anyone who gets stuck in a phase like being a full time narc, liar, cheater, daddy pleaser etc is not the norm. All I am saying it does not take an expert to realise something is off when you are on the receiving or giving end. All of the chapters written in my book is just a snippet of our life hurdles. Each chapter is a book on its own. However this book is just an eye opener from a common man's or a reasonable man's point of view expression. Once you are aware of your situation there are plenty of avenues for support be it medical, professional or holistic. The choice is yours. Life is too short for bullshit. We all need to live peacefully and move on to our next elevated level.