You've passed every test, earned the certifications, learned to play "the game"; yet still struggle with the intangible skills needed to be successful socially and professionally. Here's the secret: the game is won using the sage wisdom your granny taught you growing up. Seriously Courtesy will take you places book knowledge never will. Who you know is important; but whether they like you or not determines what happens next. Described as a "mentor in your pocket," Amazon #1 Bestselling book "Leading Through Living" explores the importance of treating people well to one's career, social and civic relationships, and personal growth. Author Lynita Mitchell-Blackwell frankly shares her experiences - the good, bad, and downright embarrassing - as a young woman navigating career, several organizations, and relationships while earning her degrees and certifications. "The most important three phases in one's quest for personal growth and professional success are please, thank you, and I apologize," says Mitchell-Blackwell. "Learn them well and life will be full of unexpected triumph."