True love should be effortless and absolute. It should defy all established logic of human behavior. The honeymoon phase is, no doubt, the best position you find yourself and your partner in. You wish that you could be stuck in this phase forever. But when the sparks settle and the bursts of infatuation start to fade, and you find yourself noticing their flaws, having arguments and misunderstandings with them, or simply seeing their imperfections, you begin to enter into the real picture. This is when most couples drift apart. But if the arguments make your relationship stronger and you find yourself coming back to this person, then you've indeed found your true love. Love is all about accepting each other's flaws and imperfections. But it is also the most transformative power on the Earth. Whether it's following a specific diet to look good for them, buying new outfits, working on your insecurities and weaknesses, or listening to their point of view respectfully even though you're murdering them in your head, it's all about the internal self-growth and becoming a better person for them. Talking to your partner about something he did that bothered you and him apologizing to you instead of being rude and promising you that he will work on himself is clearly a sign of true love.